Thursday 1 December 2011

The BFF drama. You know when you start high school, everything is a little strange, you go from playing on the fields and getting dirty, hairstyle ruined at (primary school) to chatting more and keeping it clean constantly checking the mirror to see if everything is still cool( at high school). Funny how at first we try to fit in the 'popular' group, always pretending and only to find out later who your real friends are. It hurts when you first get hurtful friends but once you out you realise that they did you a favour because now you can finally be yourself and find new 'real' friends. Real friends don't come in handy, you discover many differences, some are short tempered, some straight talkers others keep their personal feelings to themselves. The friendship begins with a smile, then sharing stories, hugs follow, exchanging phone numbers, texting each other about juicy gossip, laughter, then start fighting, realise each other's weak point but still manage to work things out. There comes the last year, wondering where did all these years go to, at the end of the year you rap things up, still sad going to miss your classmates, the school, the teachers and the environment as a whole. You all seperate but promise to keep it touch, the first few months are so odd, and you still call each other and complain about the new changes. Few months down the line you meet even crazier friends and yet you thought non compared to your High School BFF's. You enjoy their company a lot, have so much in common but still having varieties. You slowly begin to further from you HS friends as they slowly adjust in their own atmospheres, no one keeps in thouch for a while. Whenever you talk, you talk about what used to be, when you together they see the new memories you made with new BFF's and you see that little frown but chose to avoid it. What really gets to me most is that the love for your HS BFF's never changed yet they feel the opposite, your new BFF's think you still hung up on other friends yet you know they also have your love. Take a look back all the years we made new friends, from pre school, to primary, to high school, to varsity or college, to work and everywhere, it's suppose to get easier but everytime you get attached it's a different story. I made memories to capture the moment, it's always better to look back on images, videos and in writing either than just a thought. Make memories everywhere you go, their not there to put sadness on you face but to put a smile when you are troubled. BFF's are everywhere but true BFF's are somewhere in few places, so treasure them distance can never seperate love for love devides pain and multiplies happinesss. Take your phone ,call that BFF don't matter even if five years has passed!

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